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Salvere Blog: Expectations and Reality

March 19, 2020

by Salvere Health and Fitness

Sometimes people say, don’t have expectations. How realistic does this sound? Ever tried it? As many of us sit home the next few weeks, unexpectedly, maybe it’s about realistic, expectation-vs-realitythoughtful expectations with flexibility.

Expectations come in many different areas – with yourself, with friends, with family, with significant others, with a job and with a daily schedule. Think of a time when you set a goal for yourself and did not “accomplish” it and a time you did. What made each situation different?

With fitness, my mind goes to New Years resolutions. We encourage setting goals of exercise and eating that often start with unrealistic expectations. For example, someone who wants to start working out from scratch, what makes it seem realistic to expect going from not exercising to 5-6x per week immediately. What about the process of recovering from injury or illness? How about setting something more achievable and reasonable? That person sets an unrealistic expectation of themselves and often as professionals we guide these goals without further discussion.

Look at other areas such as relationships as well. How and what creates the expectation of another? Do we expect something from Mom or Dad, cause, well they’re our parents? Do we expect things from our significant other simply because of the role they hold in our lives? Do we expect our job to provide us something unrealistic? How about buying a big house or fancy car, do we expect that to bring us joy?

What if we took a little more time to look deeper at each situation and person as well as ourselves when we set expectations? How could we be more aware and appreciate each situation for what it brings to our lives? How can we better express areas we could use extra support and honor our individual dreams and goals?

Maybe taking a little extra time to investigate a little deeper will help with establishing more realistic expectations of both ourselves and each other? How do we use this to navigate an ever changing environment?

by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Conditioning vs Curiosity

February 29, 2020
Let’s investigate conditioning – the mental conditioning, not necessarily the sports/fitness kind of conditioning you think a fitness professional would be writing about.
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According to our friend the dictionary, conditioning is defined as “the process of training or accustoming a person or animal to behave in a certain way or to accept certain circumstances.”
How do we become conditioned to think certain things? What contributes to our mental conditioning of how something “should” be or even “could” be? Think about all the places you get messages from throughout the day – social media, television, radio, friends, family … Any others?
A list I started from things I hear throughout the day/week:
Shoes will fix foot “problems”
Running causes bad knees
Diets work
Pain is natural
Weight loss is good
That healthy comes in a certain body size
Muscle soreness means a good workout
Core = Abdominal muscles
Shouldn’t question physical therapist, trainer or doctor
People with larger bodies don’t exercise/people with smaller bodies “are fit”
What things do you hear people accept without asking more questions? What things do you accept in yourself without questioning? How can you create more awareness and space to engage in more inquisitive/curious conversations with yourself and others?
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: The In Between

February 3, 2020
by Salvere Health and Fitness
Think of something that might be all or none, good or bad and right or wrong. With our weight loss obsessed culture, we often talk about actions that come with this all or none feel. What about the time between, in the middle of this or that?
infinity dots spaceLet’s look at a few. Eating something “bad” equates to “falling off the wagon”. Think about sugar, white flour and carbohydrates. At some point, any or all of these became “the enemy” and to be avoided. Don’t eat sugar or, if you do, it will be addicting. How many times over the past several decades has some expert told us to eliminate carbohydrates? How do we start talking more about what happens between NO sugar and being “addicted”?
Now on to exercise. Think back to recommendations over the years. Do 60-90 minutes of exercise daily. Do high intensity to get your heart rate up. Stretch, don’t stretch. What about the days you feel tired or the calendar looks a little full of work, family and friends that day? I hear all the time that I just walked, or I just did 20 minutes so it doesn’t really count. What about that week that’s unusually crazy with things and exercise gets missed?
Maybe instead of thinking it’s all one way or the other, we can start to refrain our thoughts to spend time in the middle, in between this end and that end?
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Age Specific Exercise?

January 27, 2020
by Salvere Health and Fitness
puzzle piecesEver read anything about exercise specific to certain age groups such as balance for older people or higher intensity for younger? What makes an age equal a certain fitness level or abilities?
For many years, exercise recommendations come with some pretty specific parameters. Do this many minutes a day, do this many repetitions, this many times a week, this many pounds … How do we shift this mindset to make activity specific to the individual and how things feel that day? Why wait until we don’t have something like balance or flexibility or stability to work on it?
What if we started focusing on what needs of each person based on genetics, history, injuries, accidents, likes, dislikes and experience instead of thinking we every person of a certain age group “should” do certain exercises?
Spend some time thinking about what pieces already in your puzzle and what pieces you might want to add to formulate something that feels balanced and achievable to you.
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Take Time To Reflect, 20 Year Reflections

January 20, 2020
by Salvere Health and Fitness
reflectionsOne of the learnings that I use frequently throughout the past 20 years — Taking time to reflect, especially before making big decisions.
January for many means time for resolutions – Even for some who say they don’t set them, tend to make various changes for January. For as long as I can remember, this time of year came with new promises to diet and/or exercise more, maybe lose weight and other various health “promises”. How many of you still do resolutions? What specific things worked well for you?
One thing to think about with setting food and/or exercise goals, when you look at nature during this time of year, especially in colder areas of the country, it really becomes a time to almost hibernate and spend time resting. January would be the time to do more lower intensity movements like yoga, tai chi, meditation, stretching and hiking. Winter foods even feel heavier for a reason so not the time of year to eat less or eat lighter foods typically found during summer months.
What if, instead of resolutions, we took that time for reflections? Reflecting on the previous year – What went great, what unexpected things happened, what did you accomplish, what did not go as you thought it might, what struggles did you experience, what was your favorite experience, what do you look forward to in the coming year..?
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Be Willing to Change Direction, 20 Year Reflections

December 23, 2019
Through 20 years in business, I experienced 911 within 2 years of starting; then the economy downturn right after I opened the studio; then a lawsuit for copyright infringement from a company in Ohio shortly after that while simultaneously opening a non profit; then moving locations and, finally, working thru the process of multiple lease renewals.
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How many times do you remember experiencing something that didn’t quite make your original plan? Reflecting, during each one of these major situations I remember immediately thinking “forget this” as I didn’t know what to do.
As I stepped back, I realized that taking some time and processing the circumstances provided perspective on various directions to take things. Often, these unplanned events sent from the universe actually created new opportunities.
Whether business or life, we can only plan so much — how do we prepare and keep a mindset that the unexpected happens more often then we think?
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Stay True to Yourself, 20 Year Reflections

December 21, 2019
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Stay true to yourself. Pretty sure this could be more then one blog post. At one point, long ago, I read a bit on marketing fitness from the “experts”. They would say how marketing external appearance builds clientele and grows business.
So, I tried that, received over 20 calls and zero turned into clients. After two months of this, I switched my messaging to health and longevity, received one phone call who turned into a client for years. Her first comment, “why have you not advertised there before?”.
Needless to say, I never again marketed external appearance because I believe the benefit to moving impacts our bodies in ways that don’t show on our outsides. In fact, I see things every day done in the name of “losing weight” that do way more harm then anything else. trying to be something or someone that doesn’t feel “right” makes life harder. When have you done something in life that didn’t feel true to you but went for it anyway? How did it turn out??
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: If It Ain’t Broke, Break It, 20 Year Reflections

November 25, 2019
Sounds opposite of what we learned about life, if it ain’t broke, don’t break it. With business, being prepared for change and even creating opportunities for it becomes the key to longevity.
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Continuously breaking the process and/or looking ahead, provides opportunities to grow and learn. Also, building on the “things find you” lesson, this mindset creates space for new thoughts, ideas, concepts and experiences to find space.
Thinking about ways to some how stay focused on the future and preparing for change sometimes creates a challenge with staying focused on the present while planning and preparing for the future.
After much practice, using the opportunity, potential and guarantee that change will happen, I learned you can use planning for the future to also help appreciate the present.
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Sometimes Things Find You, 20 Year Reflections

November 19, 2019
Early in my business, I thought I wanted to train athletes. You know that high intensity, hard, work til failure stuff. I got there, tried it out and thought, hmm, not to sure about this.
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During my quest to start my own business, I connected with a trainer doing some different things in fitness. Namely, training women during and after breast cancer treatment. I never knew this existed much less thought it a fit for me.
So naturally, I said yes!! It took some time to learn from her and I eventually started working with a few of her clients. As a jock at 25 years old, my lack of life experience ended up being the beginning of something I never imagined.
My lesson from this, sometimes we stay so focused on what we “planned” to happen that we miss the universe sending something else our way. As I reflect on this, now and at various other times throughout the last 20 years, I see it over and over, in places other than business too. Can any of you think of a time this happened in your life??
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Does “Healthy” Have A “Look”?

November 11, 2019
Often we complement a persons size or weight loss with a comment about health. Does health come in a size or certain “look”? Do we sometimes think healthy looks a certain way?
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Over the years, I learned that healthy becomes a complement without finding out more about the person.
Weight loss does not necessarily mean healthy, “skinny and muscular” does not necessarily mean healthy, a larger body does not necessarily mean unhealthy and weight gain does not necessarily mean unhealthy.
How can we expand our idea of what healthy looks like?
by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 443.340.2969.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.