Posts Tagged ‘lose weight’

Salvere Blog: The Box of “Shoulds”

December 7, 2020

by Salvere Health and Fitness

In reflecting over conversations with different people sharing stories and experiences, how many times do we do something because someone told us we “should”? Can you think of something you did feeling like you should but something about it just did not seem right?

It seems like it exists in many areas of life so I wanted to focus on the health “should” box. Where might these things appear? Maybe it showed up by exercising through an injury. Maybe it’s eating something you don’t like. Maybe its avoiding movement because you feel low on energy. Maybe it’s not eating enough? In looking at fitness and health, it feels like it would take a much longer blog to get in everything but here’s the start to a list!


The box of “should” …

  • Lose weight
  • Eliminate carbs
  • Exercise harder
  • Run
  • Eat breakfast
  • Workout longer
  • Not eat after a certain time at night
  • Exercise first thing in the morning
  • Fit a certain size
  • Clean the dinner plate

How do we peal away the “should” feelings and get to a place where listening to our internal voice begins to take over. Intuition matters. Different things work for different people. How can we begin to support each journey, both within ourselves and with others, as a unique experience?

by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email lisa@SalvereHealthandFitness.com or call 410.707.0055.
We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.

Salvere Blog: Is a Picture Really Worth 1,000 Words?

November 11, 2017

by Salvere Health And Fitness

Before and after pictures, head shots for business, pictures on dating sites, photo promoting a personal trainer/massage therapist/dietitian? We use pictures for so many things but what do they really tell?

Before and After Pictures: used often to show “progress” with exercise/fitness/”healthy eating”, but what do they show really? Someone loses weight, we complement – do we know how they accomplished it before saying something? Do we find out if they might be sick or depressed? Say they did “change” their habits, do we know they’re not struggling with an eating disorder?

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These pics show one thing, weight loss… do they really show “WHO” this person is and their character? We complement “you look so great”. What about all the rest of the picture, the hidden pieces? What about their generosity, their passion, their intelligence, their value, their internal beauty, their internal health, their abilities, their compassion, their worth, their hobbies, their supportiveness, their ???

Same with other photos – Why do we use them? What does it tell us about that persons ability to do their job, be a good partner, their knowledge about a specific craft? Do we make decisions based on these pictures? Why or why not?

Do we take the time to complement the person behind the picture, long before any weight loss or change in external appearance? As adults, why don’t we show off pictures of ourselves that show more?

by Lisa Martin, owner and personal trainer at Salvere Health and Fitness. To contact, email Lisa@SalvereHealthAndFitness.com or call 410.707.0055

We welcome your thoughts and ideas! Thank you for reading and taking the steps to become a healthier YOU.